1.Firstly the main instrument in a relation is listening power. God gifted us with ears which are not just showpiece but tehnical un-resolvable equipment.When in a relation always give your partner a chance to express, a chance to open them to you so that you can know what’s in their life what they expect in you or relation.
If you just want to be single in a relation then you can surely make your partner stop speaking or divert your attention which most of the people do.But believe friend’s relation is just a word, to make it active you 2 partners need to be active. Let your partner speak up, let them have their way in your life.
When they have their way in your life they will feel special and you can be sure about your relation because your partner will see that you care for him/her, you demand their attention, you are focused only & only in your partner when he/she is with you because you listen to what they say what they demand or what they are upto.
2. Next important is your voice. Our voice is our element to express ourselves when we are with our partner public display or care is not everything your feelings should be vocal. Your partner knows about your LOVE for him/her, but when you make that feeling express-able in words it’s certain they will feel special as it is a human urge to know, by signals you get a sign but by words you get confirmation.
Let’s say at a Railway station you see signal you see a sign you just are aware of the result but hearing an announcement make you 100% sure. Isn’t it friends?So, always let your voice do the magic. It can be speaking 3 magical words after every call or texting while at work or at home or writing a secret letter which is outdated nowadays but believe me some people expect the unexpected writing letter can be a useful tool.
3. Some people in a relation are not ready to accept the relation at a social level, while outing or meeting with friends or at some function we shy or feel improper to be connected to our partner, but really you should focus on this agenda other than serious issues.
when you are in love have guts to put in social level also.When meeting/hanging with friends always be close to your partner hold their hands or hug them or while chitchatting try not to boast about your achievements or your life, inspite talk about you two’s life and your partners goods/achievements. This images you as the leader or King who’s not afraid of others to love his Queen.
4. Time and Tide waits for none, we all know this- yes it means you flow with time and whatever you do you can’t correct it or change it. So, please make every moment useful every part of life lovable. Give time to your partner give them space.We know it’s a busy world with busy schedule but being at work or at home find at least a little time to say hello or ask them how they are or did they eat anything, these primary question’s make a huge difference in our relation. While working at lunch break or after office try to be connected - text, call, and email he/she knows your busy schedule but feels happy by knowing out your busy schedule you still do have time for them.
Don’t dominate your partner by connecting with him/her as per your convenience, domination brings disaster in your relation as we all know holding sand tightly in our hand makes it flow more and what’s left is little bit happiness with huge darkness. So, friend’s don’t dominate your partner never have your way or never leave an option for him/her to follow your way as they are also humans.
Always include them in your life decisions or any decisions like which movie to go? What to order in a restaurant? Or what to buy for home? These questions make them feel alive as they see themselves as a part your life and feel happy of the importance they have in your life. Otherwise for sure your partner knows you will do what you want leaving them alone which make them inactive and lonely and as the saying goes “Humans are hungry for love”, no doubt they will search for better option than you.
5. Lastly, Love means giving & expecting nothing just love in return. Just what your parents, teachers, friends do and you should do for your partner. Stop asking them or demanding for yourselves.Try giving them not particularly by MONEY but what you can like your time, your love, a small gift or card, a chocolate half eaten by you. These small things will make your relation run smoothly, demanding makes anyone crazy as they love you but will be fatigued at end fulfilling those demands. So demand less and try to give more what you can and what in yours limit.
Don’t expect much, a small rose everyday can be the best proved love or a simple small kiss on cheeks when you meet is perfect.
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